There seem to be two issues here: whether 5.5% is the "right" commission, and whether 5.5% was ever discussed.
A lot of the answers on this thread seem to be talking about whether 5.5% is the "right" commission. I don't know your market or your price point (a 5.5% commission on a $4 million home is a different thing from a 5.5% commission on a $400,000 home) so I can't comment on that.
However, let's talk about the issue of whether 5.5% was ever discussed -- from what you've said, the answer is a big "no."
I personally think that's a little weird. I'm a professional, and my services are expensive, and when I'm selling I tell my potential clients just how expensive they are and why.
I do this because 1) my clients are trusting me with a very important part of their financial lives, and I want them to make a decision that they're going to be comfortable with for many, many years and 2) a lot of what we do as agents and negotiators is to talk about money -- and I want to show my client my negotiating style.
Well, you've seen this agent's style -- are you still comfortable with it? It is at the very least cause for a conversation.
Remember, you're paying for this agent's services, you should feel good in your gut about them.
Good luck!
ali
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Alison Rogers
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